Firstly I want to thank you for raising my amazing fiancé! Thank you for raising him to have manners, emotions, courage, and to treat people with the respect you'd want. Thank you for raising the man of my dreams.
With that being said I think it's time I address the bond you and he have. I truly admire the close connection you and he have. He is your baby, and your only son. But he is not a child tho you treat him as such. He is a grown man who needs to make his own live choices and shouldn't have to worry about how his actions and choices will make you feel. His world is growing and should include more than just you. I understand that sounds harsh but it's coming from a fiancé who is sick of her relationship revolving around you. Do you realize he puts you above anything and anyone else. Oh of course you do because you have him wrapped around your finger. I don't mean to sound ungrateful or as though I don't appreciate the role you play in his life, because I do and without you he wouldn't be the man he is today. But I believe it is time that you ease up off of him and let him live his life, you can do the things that you ask him to do. He doesn't need to come to your house every day to do stuff for you, you can do it and if not then you can call on your soninlaw who lives just down the road. Your son needs to fucus on his live and our future. He is so concerned about you and your feelings he has put me and my feeling on the back burner. Did you know that for our one year anniversary we didn't celebrate it but we did go to a party for you. Or did you know that for our two year anniversary instead of celebrating he asked me to cook for you, your bitchy daughter, her husband, and their two brat child's, oh and then they assumed I'd go pick to their other kids from his moms. Not yet have we celebrated a anniversary. We don't even go on dates anymore because you complain that we leave our dog there too long and you have to do soooo much to care for him. He's the size of a football he doesn't take much attention. I hold my tongue and smile when we are together but I honestly want to scream and runaway. You criticize every move I make, I can do nothing right in your eyes. And you don't even have the balls to complain to my face instead you call your husband and complain and in return he calls my fiancé/your son and complains and then my fiancé/your son has to tell me that I'm not doing anything via your husband via you. If you have a problem with me take it up with me, don't go behind my back and talk shit. I realize I'm not ever going to be good enough for your son trust me I know, I don't need to be reminded of it all the time.
This letter got pretty wordy without even realizing it. So in summary: thanks for raising my dream guy. Let him live his life. Stop depending on him for every single thing. If you have a problem with me take it up with me. Take your son's/my fiancé' and I's relationship into conversation before you ruin what we have worked so hard to create(because your pretty close)
