To the parents who said I was a bad influence because I had baby at 17.

Subject: To the parents who said I was a bad influence because I had baby at 17.
Date: 20 Aug 2016

Growing up I never imagined that I would be a teenage mother, but I guess our plans change. I got pregnant with my adorable son when I was 16 and had him at 17. And honestly I don't regret it at all.

I'm so sick of the stigma that's attached to having a baby young. "She's a slut" "she can't take care of her child" "she's a baby having a baby" in all fairness some teenage mothers aren't good parents and don't care about their children but that's not all of us. Like I said before my son is the best thing that has ever happened to me. And he comes before anyone and anything else. At 16 I had only slept with one guy, and that guy is now my fiancé.

You're saying that I'm a bad influence because I got pregnant after being on birth control?! Your teenage children are having sex too so why are you putting those girls down who have proof that they had sex. I am not a bad influence, I don't do drugs, I don't drink and I sure as hell am not out stealing etc. Maybe instead of judging me and my life you should look into your children's lives a little more. Because news flash pregnancy wither planned or not happens every single day. And why are we judging people for it? Kids are blessings not a curse.

You don't understand the struggles and trials and tribulations of being a young mom so before you open your mouth and assume things about a young parent or how your children would never do something like that you might want to reconsider.

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