From the very first time he introduced us, I knew your intentions. I didn't like you, but I tolerated you for his sake. I don't know if it was the was you kept grabbing him as if he were your property, or the way you looked at me in complete disgust that made it more obvious. You didn't like me, and you definitely didn't respect me as his fiance.
Then, it happened. He asked if our relationship could be open. Obviously, he still wanted me, he just wanted you on the side, "to keep things fresh", he said. That was not okay, I told him no. You both heard me say it. Yet, you still slept with him.
I couldn't handle it. I couldn't handle your existence in his life. I was so glad when you finally fell off the grid and blocked every possible way of him contacting you. We were truly about to start our life together, and you did not belong in it.
But magically as things started completely falling into place for us, you were back. Oh, what was that? You're pregnant too?! The best part? You didn't know who the dad was, but of course there was a chance that I wasn't the only one having a child with the man who was suppose to be mine.
I asked him for a break, and two weeks later he and the kids who I had raised practically since birth were moved in with you.
Fast forward 8 months, and both babies are here. Yours, however, isn't his, yet he knows more about her than his own. The kids I sacrificed for and raised as my own for 3 years now, by your demand, call you mom. Then, on top of everything else, you demand to be a part of my daughters parenting plan and refuse to back down.
I will say this one last time, you are not her mother. You are simply the human being who destroyed my daughters chance of ever having a normal family. I do not like you, and I do not respect you, but I will be, and have been, nice, until you attempt to assert dominance in MY daughters life.
Do you really think that because you've been with her father for 8 months you have a right to dictate my daughters childhood? You aren't even her step parent at this point, and, chances are you never will be!
Here's a hint, next time you decide you're in love with a man in a relationship, don't live up to peoples poor expectation of you.
