This is an open letter to the 17-year-old that thinks that she rescued my fiancé from an unhappy relationship.
You don't get to think that you did something right. You don't get to think that you rescued someone from an unhappy relationship, but I'm sure that your naivety leads you to believe you did...
You are a terrorist to relationships. You attacked and destroyed something when it was at its weakest. I'm not going to pretend that I didn't love him, I did. And whether you want to believe it or not, he loved me.
I may have come out on the other side a better person for everything I went through, however you will never get to take credit for that. I went through hell because of you, but I have overcome much worse.
You will forever have that lingering feeling "is he going to find someone else just because he's unhappy. " Always watching your back and wondering on those nights he comes home drunk "where was he" and "who was he with."
You will never trust him completely and be able to let your guard down. At least if I were you, I wouldn't.
I don't really expect you to get it, how could I? Being a teenager, you lack the experience of someone my age. Your basis of knowledge is limited.
You see he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him and asked to be with me forever. That was a promise he broke, because of you. If you think it's because you have something special with him, trust me you're not the first.
I'm not writing this to make you feel some kind of way, only to say, this was your choice. If anything I feel bad for you. I am glad I don't have to deal with your current situation. And no, I don't blame you for everything he did his part.
Your relationship started on the basis of a lie. You were in his bed before he even washed his sheets. That was our bed we slept in every night. The picture frames all still contained pictures of us and my stuff was still in the house. How does that give anyone time to heal and truly get over someone? It doesn't.. If anything, I feel sorry for you. I hope that he will treat you better.
I'm also writing this to say, stop stalking me! I'm not sure if it's your immaturity or insecurity but move on. There is no need for you to know me or vice versa.
My life is wonderful and I am happy!
