An Open letter to “A Lost Warrior in the field of life”

Do not expect a knight with shining armor when you are not equipped with your sword.........
Think like strong, compassionate, caring but a daredevil who takes a charge when it is required.
Be that warrior, who inspite of all odds wins the war ethically and respectfully.
But yes, take a step backwards not because you are afraid of losing but in order to take giant leap later...
Refrain to hold your anger... as it better to explain and express it.... because when it is not done so.... it erupts like a volcano... with much more intensity, disgrace, arrogance and impudence.... however you feel to hold on to silence refrain to do so....
Love but... refrain to lose yourself in others because there is much important thing which is your own self-respect, dignity....
Self-love is the best form of respect you can give yourself while others love is just an icing on cake....
But... always love with whole, no expectations and have no regrets for there is one things that stays with you forever... the way you loved with whole heart every time....
Be the person who you want in your life.
Be that individual who inspite of all faults... has a light in his/her aura because of the beautiful heart he/she has which certainly makes you different from the crowd.
It is completely alright not behave normal and sane every time but it is important to express what you feel...
It is completely perfect to be teenage mess and childish.... coz it is good to be child at heart. Yes, that child in your heart knows how to follow your dreams and achieve them without any hindrances. That child in your knows how to dream endlessly without any limits
Most of all be a badass when required.... do not refrain to show your wild streak and yes be yourself however inconvenient, daredevil it may seem to be.
Refrain to consider opinion of others in terms of judging you... these people may not be bad... it is just their perception of you... which most of time you are expecting like they say..
Love what you feel and like what you do... but do it with heart and love...
Most of all, be that person with no limits but maintain and create boundaries wherever necessary not because of hate but to distance yourself from negative people and negative circumstances.
Refrain to let anyone belittle your any or worthless reason, either walk away or stand up for yourself... either way will benefit you.
But yes, stand up for yourself and for what you want because if you don’t then no one will… Just do the best you can… not for your pride and ego but for your self-respect and dignity…
There might be people who try to discourage sometimes and try to tell you that it seems difficult based on their experiences and judgement. It does not mean that are bad individuals, well sometimes they maybe, but do not stop from what are you are doing. But always, think before acting on something based on your intuition and gut feelings, there is no better guide than your higher self. Refrain to let their judgement decide the path leading towards your purpose of life. Always remember, we all have our unique set of experiences and that is how our life path is designed. After all, each of us is unique in their own way.
Yes, love, respect, adore yourself in every way you can.
Lose yourself to find who you are. Because finding yourself again, is the best feeling ever. That feeling marks your rebirth in same life times. Sometimes, it happens once, sometimes twice and as many times until the lesson of life is learned.
Sometimes our own life experiences makes us alert, judgemental, sensitive and tough, that we forget we observe the beauty in others. We all pass through such phases, but always remember ‘Thing of beauty is a joy forever’. Learn to observe beauty in others even though they seem to be unpredictable from outside. Like they say ‘Never judge a book by its cover’. Sometimes, the most tough, arrogant, angry quiet, unexpressive people you meet have beautiful hearts radiating love, compassion and kindness. It is just they are embedded deep inside a protective shield of fears of their life experiences.
Be who are you are originally. So that people know who you really are. More than people, let yourself know what imperfectly perfect creation of God you are. Someone wisely said that ‘It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not’. Being yourself is the best possible thing on this earth.
Never pretend that it is alright when it is not, there is no better torture than this, trust me. We all have our kinds of ups and downs. Sometimes it is better being a badass and stubborn to keep distance from any nuisance in life.
If you love someone deeply and truly have faith and patience in your love. But, never be attached to it. Sometimes, patience and faith is a way to test our love for other person and vice versa. Set the love free… give as much love to feel it with heart, but refrain to expect. Because expectations leads to fear and fear leads to negativity. Negativity consumes love and all is left is ‘nothing’. Love with all your heart and love both the best and worst in a person. Love and pray for your love with no boundaries in such a way that even fear is fearful of penetrating love, but yes… set it free. But never forget to fulfill your purpose while search endlessly for love.
Be patient and understanding to believe your journey even you do not understand it. Always remember life is all about trusting your journey even when you do not understand it. Just keep walking ahead in the light of your own path. You will understand at a right time what needs to believed and what needs to be given. But, do remember lighten up others path while walking in your own light. Remember to apologize whenever needed, regardless of whether they forgive or not, do it for your own good.
Whenever you feel depressed, aimless, confused and lost just remember that is just a moment. Most of all keep on walking ahead in your light. It is just like sometimes when you travel you do not know all roads to your destination, but there are signs, circumstances and even wrong ways that finally lead to right destination.
Love, live, laugh, fight but remember express feelings. There are always going to be your set of people who know you more than you know yourself. They accept you through the thick and thin, at your best and even at your worst.
Learn to accept rather embrace yourself for who you are. Let the crowd impress you but not influence or manipulate you.
Most of all, have that enlightening smile lights your path as well as others. Have that smile that can always be seen and felt irrespective of any circumstances in life. Be that warrior, who inspite of every hurdle or any circumstances manages to fight the wrongs and turn them into right. Not because of pride or ego, but to be the “Santiago” (main character of Paulo Coelho’s book ‘The Alchemist’) of your own life.
Finally, my question to all of you is ‘Why to fit in a place and get lost in crowd when you are actually meant to stand out?’.