Yes we've all had our hearts broken and we'd never survive it. But as we grow-up we learn it's a part of life and that it's bound to happen many times. And we sometimes even grow from it. As a parent our children even break our hearts by simply not making good choices and maybe not having the life we wanted them to have. But we get do get over and we love them and continue to help them. And the heart heals...
But you truly do have a broken heart when you loose a love one especially a child. I can honestly say November 13, 2015 my heart was broken and a piece was lost forever when I got the phone call my 23 year old son was in a car accident with his friend. Never in a million years did I think I would ever loose one of my children before me. I know people die everyday and I've lost plenty of close people in my life. But nothing hurt quite like this.
Some days I don't want to get out of bed because I don't want to breathe. I know people loose children everyday and I honestly don't know how they do it.
My day starts and ends with me crying all because a 74 year old man was wreakless and hit my sons friends car and killed them both. And that man is walking around fine, while these two families are broken hearted. Our lives forever changed and missing our loved one. So yes having a broken heart can be shit. But to loose a loved one and have a piece missing is a terrible thing and I don't think I'll ever come back from that. I think you just go through the motions to get by...
