To the girls that “Friendzone” the Good Guys,
You are some of the nicest people that men will ever meet in today's society, but you seem to always go for the the men that treat you the worst and when you’re told what he is doing or wanting to do you blow us off and say “That not true,” or “You’re just saying that so I will break up with him,” etc. The thing is you are the best thing that would ever happen to those guys but you are not the best thing that had happened to them. Most of the time you girls are the smartest and prettiest girls us good guys know but when to guys you seem pretty ignorant when it come to his intentions
Have you considered that we might actually care about your well being and your happiness? If only a few of you have then you are the real keepers, as a friend or as a partner. It always seem that every time someone says something somewhat negative or what you declare is negative about your intrest in men or boyfriends you get to defensive and fight the facts that point at his guiltiness.
Fact is, you are stubborn to the point of giving up on, but we “good guys” care to much about you and your wellbeing. We think that we could find a way to help you see the mistakes you are making and how we feel about you so you can open your eyes to who we truly are and how we feel about you and all of your flaws.
Your stubbornness to see what is wrong with most of the men you would date is one of the many flaws that we love and respect about you, except when it comes to this situation of course. It is just so frustrating to watch you go through all of this and knowing that he isn't worth your time but you still are with him because he know how to say what you want to hear.
With this being out in the air for all to read and share and explain, please understand how every thing is two sided.
Sincerely,
The Good Guys
