I have always given you the opportunity to see her as much or as little as you would like, from the very beginning. YOU have chosen to play some fucked up game of manipulation with my sick child and its deplorable. Its not up to me when you decide to see her, contact me about seeing her, or about anything else for that matter. I cannot make you be a good person, nor do I have to hold your hand and teach you how to be parents. She is a smart kid, no thanks to you, and she sees right though your shit.
You are right, you don't know if I want you to contact me. Obviously after what you two did, I would happy if I never saw your faces again. But no worries, I will be the grown-up and DEAL with you because it is what is in the best interest of my child. Whatever you are trying to do, it wont work. Whatever you think is going on, is not. I know you are high most of the time, so you have a short attention span, but that is not my fault that you have no idea what is going on with your kid. I have had to repeat myself like five times about her treatment plan, and how it all works. The amazing child we see before us is because we have raised her, we have provided everything for her always.
You have no idea what you are doing, what it means to be a mother or a father. You have no idea what it means to sacrifice for someone other than yourself.
We were the ones who have always believed she was smart, not you. We were the ones who taught her how to read when you wouldn't. I was the one who was there to hold her when she was breaking down because of what she is going through and realizing the gravity of the situation, not you. Instead, you have decided to trash her mom, and lie to a vulnerable sick child, why?
What do you think you will get out of this? What do you think your relationship will be with her at 20? 25? 35? You have have to lay in the bed you have made, not me.